Monday, August 5, 2013

Back to the Gym.. And the Diet...



My issues with weight really stared in high school.  I was a 3 sport athlete so I was active all of the time and able to eat whatever I wanted without any consequences, until I tore my ACL in an AAU basketball game, then everything changed. 

While I played basketball and lacrosse, football was always my favorite and what I knew I wanted to continue to play in college so when I got injured playing basketball I decided to stop playing everything else and commit to playing football.  Great for my football career but bad for me weight.  I kept eating like I did when I was playing 3 sports and practicing all the time but I definitely wasn’t burning the same amount of calories as before.  I didn’t get huge or anything, I mean I was still working out and practicing so I still had an active lifestyle and I think I benefited from a faster childhood metabolism but I most definitely put a little weight on at this point.

I was really able to maintain that through college, again benefiting from working out and having practice all the time.  The biggest change came after I was done playing college football.  I was working full time and just really decided that after working out constantly for the last 9 or 10 years that I just wanted to take a little time off and just relax.  Planning for 2 or 3 months, 6 went by before I really noticed something had changed.  Long story short, it was still some time before I finally decided that I was ready to stop living that way and try to get back in shape. 

Ever since that day, it has continued to be a struggle.  Lets not lie, I like food.  If weight loss was all about working out and not so much about what you eat, I would be in great shape but it’s not.  What you eat is vital to your success in losing weight or just getting in shape and I have tried just about everything to find something that works.  I did the HGH diet, where you basically eat a piece of broccoli and 2 bites of chicken and that’s supposed to last you all day… Yeah, that didn’t last for very long… I did Weight Watchers, Body for Live and even Atkins, trying to find something that I could not only just “diet” with but something that I could maintain for life.  I really liked Atkins initially, I really struggled with getting to the low number of allowed carbs at the beginning and especially with working out, I felt very fatigued.  And I love carbs, so the deprivation was tough for me to stick with.  It wasn’t until I fell off plan yet again that I realized how good eating low amounts of carbs made me feel, I just needed a way to get around the fatigue so I could stick with it. 

I had been watching Extreme Weight Loss (or Extreme Makeover: Weight Loss Edition as it was originally known) for a while and enjoyed watching the process.  As I continued to learn more and more about exercise and diets I realized although Chris Powell talks about changing the lifestyles of the participants, we never get an insight into the diets they use… I know, buy my book and I’ll show you… Well, I did.  Outside of the fact that it is not outlined in the book how many carbs you should have on low carb and high carb day, I love the system.  In simple terms you alternate low carb and high carb days based on the particular plan you are following and you get a reward day!  For me, it is a perfect fit.  I “deprive” myself of the carbs I love for 2 days (I choose the more aggressive plan) and then I get to eat some carbs.  The key is to eat healthy carbs, not the white breads, white rice, etc. that is not as nutritious as whole grains, but it is almost like a mid-week cheat day for me.  Then 2 more days of low carbs and another high carb day and then a true reward day.  The reward day is dangerous for me, in the past I was able to stay “on plan” until I cheated.  Then once I had cheated, it became easier to do it again and again until I was completely off plan.  I try to limit my reward day as best I can while still enjoying my reward day to try to make it as easy as possible to get back on plan on Monday. 

I think this system could be “it” for me.  I love the fact that I really get to eat food and don’t have to “diet” except for the low carb days, those take commitment, but I hope to truly make this a life style change and not a diet fad.  As I have struggled holding on to a plan in the past, I am hoping that putting this in writing, even if no one reads it, will help hold me accountable.   My goal is 245 pounds, I weighed in this morning at 293.0, but the number on the scale is not as important to me as the way I look.  I want to get more toned and have less body fat, focusing on that will help me not get discouraged when the scale doesn’t move as much as I may have wanted it to a particular week.   I’ll put up new posts with updates not only of my progress but also of tips or good information that I have gathered during my journey, feel free to suggest information to look at or things to consider or even recipes that fit the plan, I’ll take all the help I can get.   

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Guess who's back...

It's only been about a year since my last post and I know everyone has been on the edge of their seats waiting... Right? A lot has happened in that time that took me away from here but I'm back now so you can all rest easy.

What really sparked my return to the blogging world is all the news about Mike Rice and Rutgers.  I've seen the video that is public and granted my knowledge of the situation is limited to what the university and the media have reported but I played sports all my life and at the collegiate level and understand this, if a coach of mine ever treated me that way I'd be in jail for assault.  There is a HUGE difference between challenging someone's man-hood and just flat out being a dickhead.  Mike Rice was being a dickhead.  You can be an aggressive coach and demand the best from your players and challenge them to be better than they are today but there is a right and a wrong way to do it.  And it is not about the language, although the homophobic remarks were a bit much, but the cursing doesn't bother me, at some level that is part of competitive sports.  Is it necessary, absolutely not, but is it in itself outlandish, I don't think so. 

I think the bigger part of the story is that Rutgers AD Tim Pernetti knew about it and only gave him a 3 game suspension!  You get a 3 game suspension for yelling at your boss, for assaulting your players, the kids who trust in you to be their leader and develop them, you get fired.  Pernetti came to his senses today when he fired Mike Rice but in my opinion, it is too little too late for me to still trust that Pernetti can make sound decisions and lead Rutgers into the Big Ten Conference.  I honestly believe that if the story wouldn't have blown up in the media Pernetti wouldn't have have fired Mike Rice and that shows a serious lack of judgement.  I will be surprised if Pernetti's head is not the next to roll at Rutgers.

I am honestly surprised that no player retaliated against Rice during a practice, I'm sure they didn't want to risk messing up "their chance" which I can understand but I would not be surprised to see law suits follow against not only Mike Rice but Tim Pernetti and Rutgers University. 

With that, I welcome you back In My Mind. 
 

I have lots of opinions.  You may not agree with them, or may want to argue with me about them, and that is perfectly fine!  Even encouraged.  These are thoughts that are "just in my mind" that I have decided to put down in words as well.  Feel free to comment on any post or take it to twitter and follow @JustinRolfes.